OK, so the IF part is easy enough. How would you do the email escalation thing?

Guess that would depend on the email system and how to COM inbound messages. Figure you'd need to have a rule to catch a reply to stop the escalation. I run a Notes shop so haven't seen anything dealing with inbound. I do outbound with SMTP.
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